"Why men love bitches" - why young women read an ancient dating Bible

It is astonishing to them that social media today teach exactly the wrong backward -looking values that women used to grew up.The women at the time was taught "As long as I am beautiful, as long as I get on well and wear the right shoes and address his fantasies, he will buy a house and pay all the bills and be loyal to me forever."

To get the addiction on the Internet, applause with beauty and beautiful clothing and the staging of men's fantasies, leads to similar expectations.Young women can be found in a social media trap.Selfies, she says, "screaming for despair", naked selfies are "a terrible idea" and the Internet and dating apps "have made women appear more available, and that is not good for women".She had written her books for women who are too nice, needy, caring or available because they were conditioned in society.

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Men use weakness

Argov had already learned from the studies on their books that these recipes from the time of the grandmothers no longer worked, but men used them.Men would know very well, she says when they behave disrespectfully, but still tried it.It was about the woman not to put up with something like that.Another message from Argov: need, despair and attachment are generally not attractive.Independence but already.If women have no standards, they are not treated well."I don't think a woman should rely on the Internet to get her self -esteem.My message is the opposite of what is conveyed by social media.I call it self -worth because it comes from the inside."

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Stand on their own legs

Because of course Argov does not mean sluts in sexual sense with "bitches".The book asked women to appear self -confident and self -determined.At that time, women were desperately behind the men, just as not to be alone."They often got involved with men too quickly, and that was a perfect example of where that leads, namely often nowhere.“In fact, most men would have fallen in love when a woman has been in charge of herself.

"Women long for romance, men long for secrets.They love the feeling that they are on the brink.What I teach women is how they can give him a feeling so that he does not consider them granted.It's really very simple: you have to stand up for yourself."

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Her books have been perfectly summarized by a father who gave one of his daughter.He wrote to her: "I want my daughter to read her books, but I would never want my wife to read her."