Men's body language: gestures reveal if he's into you!

He loves me, he doesn't love me, he loves me - what does he actually want from me? You no longer have to pick daisies to find out if your crush has feelings for you. After all, you'll find out what's between you much faster (and more reliably): just learn to read his body language. We'll show you how to do that here...

1. Body language cue: #Hug

A hug isn't just a hug. After all, you hug your good friends all the time – if only for a short time. But if a guy is genuinely interested in you, he'll do whatever it takes to prolong the hug. Plus: Compared to a friendly hug, the waist is much more included in the hug.

2. Body language cue: #fleeting touch

He keeps "accidentally" brushing your hips, arms, or maybe even your thighs? Good, because in this case the following applies: the more frequent the touches, the greater the interest! Touches in particular do not happen “accidentally”. On the contrary, boys want to be close to you and want to signal that they like you.

3. Body language cue: #conscious touch

He spots an eyelash on your face? A crumb in the corner of your mouth? Keeps reaching for your hand? Good sign! Because he wouldn't do that if he only sees you as a "good friend". He consciously chooses these gestures to get closer to you. That's why he doesn't even bother to portray them as random...

4. Body language cue: #body facing

When you end up on a park bench somewhere after a walk and tell each other your life story, you should pay particular attention to one thing: in which direction he turns his body. If he turns to you, he is also interested in your stories and you. But if he gives you the cold shoulder (in the truest sense of the word!), the interest is less great.

5. Body language hint: #back scratches

If he keeps stroking your back tenderly, then he wants to increase your well-being. He wants you to feel good, cared for, and comfortable around him. In short: He is very concerned about you and your physical well-being. If he rubs your back regularly, you can assume that he is very interested in you. Maybe he's already imagining a future with you?

What exactly do boys pay attention to? Here we reveal it!

6. Body language hint: #eye contact

Eye contact can happen in two different ways: First, when you tell a never-ending story, he still looks you deep in the eyes and nods his head to encourage you in your stories . Or secondly, if you happen to catch him in the playground watching you. As soon as you look the other way and then back at him, you can be sure to catch him staring again. But don't blame him - he's just totally smitten with you.

7. Body language cue: #upright posture

Have you ever noticed your loved one fluffing up in your presence? Does he always sit or stand straight, shoulders back and chest out? If you answered "yes" to all of these questions, you can interpret that as a clear demeanor. Anyway, he doesn't care about you...

8. Body language hint: #his laugh

No matter what joke crosses your lips - no matter how bad it is: you always get a smile from him. That's good, but you should now pay more attention to the smile he gives you. Here a clear distinction must be made between fake laughter and normal laughter. Only with a really sincere laugh can he imagine himself with you more. With a fake laugh (pssst: the corners of the mouth are only pulled up a little!), the following unfortunately applies: Welcome to the friend zone!

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